Monday, July 5, 2010

The Secret Place

The words "the secret place" keep rolling around in my spirit. Is God speaking to anyone else about this? Here are my thoughts.

God promises to be a secret place of safety for us. King David understood this well. He sought God. He hid in God. He found peace, healing, and safety there. When challenges came, David didn't blame anyone; he knew right where to go to find refuge.

"He will conceal me there when troubles come;
he will hide me in his sanctuary.
He will place me out of reach on a high rock."
Psalm 27:5

We all need a secret place in God where we can find refuge. A place where we can run when we are hurt. confused. alone. sick. afraid. weak. depressed. nervous. angry. tempted. grieving loss. lacking wisdom. healing from divorce. fighting addictions. without hope. needing peace. If you have created this secret place with God, it's familiar and comfortable to retreat there at any given time. at the drop of a hat. in the middle of the night. when the doctor calls with bad news. when your world turns upside down. If you don't have this place with God, you can. Some folks only turn to God when a crisis hits, but that's okay. If you find yourself in the foxhole, you can ALWAYS CALL ON GOD. He welcomes you. He loves you. He's not mad at you. He wants a relationship with you. He wants to carve out a secret place with you that fits you and Him perfectly.

"I will give you the treasures of darkness and the hidden riches
of secret places, that you may know that it is I,
the Lord, the God of Israel, who calls you by your name."
Isaiah 45:3


If we don't run to God for our refuge, we will run somewhere else. It is hard-wired in us to seek relief from pain. Life is hard and we cannot navigate alone without screwing things up. We have two choices; follow our God nature or follow our sin nature. The world offers many options to help us find comfort, but any way we find to soothe ourselves, that isn't pleasing to God, will not provide the satisfaction we long for. God's ways promise to "fully satisfy" (Psalm 17:15). But here's the kicker about finding refuge even in the most holy way.....
It's on us to go there. When God speaks to us about the secret place, He uses verbs: run. pursue. hide. kneel. trust. ask. seek. knock. Just like all relationships, it takes work. time. prayer. faith. scripture. discipline. God is totally available, but it's up to us to pursue Him who is "out there" until He is "in here". God will not force any part of Himself on us. He loves us enough to give us the will to decide just how much of Him we want.

"His confidential communion and secret counsel
are with the righteous. "
Proverbs 3:32

The secret place is where God speaks to us. The wisdom of man cannot compare with the voice of God. In order to hear Him though, we have to be close. When I was working at a church in Dothan, I used to sign to my assistant when we were across the sanctuary from each other, or during a service when the music was loud. We were close enough to see each other, but too far away to hear each other. Communication is much easier when we are face to face with the One that has all the answers.

"You called in distress and I delivered you.
I answered you in the secret place of thunder."
Psalms 81:7

What makes the secret place so "secret"? Part of the definition of the word "secret" is: hidden, private, something kept from the knowledge of others. I think one of the greatest things about our secret place in God is that He has specific, personalized provisions for us there. I see it like a store, kind of like a general store, but smaller. You and God are the only ones allowed in. Not because He's being snobby or exclusive, but because the things in that secret place "store" are only for you. On the shelves, waiting, all packaged up, are things you need for what's going on in your life. God knows everything about you. all your needs. all your desires. all your struggles. all that hurts you. all your fears. In the secret place we receive from Him exactly what we need for our hearts. our circumstances. our purpose.

"He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High
shall remain stable and fixed under the
shadow of the Almighty."
Psalms 91:1

Friday, May 14, 2010

Breaking Soul Ties


Sometimes we form attachments to people on a soulish level. The more we let someone into our heart, the more of ourselves we give to them. That's pretty normal, especially in a love relationship. The problem comes when we find that we can't really get away from a person, or more specifically, our thoughts and emotions toward that person. Let's say I am angry at my best friend Penelope for betraying my trust. That anger could fester and grow and form an unhealthy bond to Penelope that I couldn't get rid of without God's help. My soul would be tied to her soul through anger. (It could be any emotion that connects us to others; I'm just using anger because it's our strongest emotion.) Realizing that soul ties are created and praying to break them help keep humans "off the throne of our hearts" which is the place reserved for God. I have to break soul ties all the time. I love easily and as long as there is trust there, let people into my heart easily. I am passionate. I love deep and I hurt deep and I find myself needing this prayer regularly. I break soul ties when I realize I am too close to someone (through good or bad emotions), when forgiving someone becomes a daily struggle, or when I've been under abusive authority. One way to determine my need to break soul ties is if my thoughts continue to replay an offense, a heartbreak, or a wound. When forgiving people, I pray like this, "I forgive you for ________. I release you, I won't hold this against you, I take the loss and I give it to Jesus". Then I break soul ties with that person, using the following prayer. If it is a strong tie, sometimes I have to pray the prayer several times a day. I've been using this prayer for years and it always works. I hope it helps you too. Fill in the blanks with the other person's name.

"I break this unprofitable soul tie of ________ (anger, rage, jealousy, unforgiveness, abuse, etc....any sin that is keeping you bound to the person; try to identify it) between myself and _________(person's name). I sever the cord that attaches me to _________. I command the fragments of my soul in _______ to return to me. I claim the fragments of _________'s soul in me to return to them and to integrated into the rightful places. I claim the scripture that says "He restores my soul". Holy Spirit, heal the damage that this ungodly soul tie has done in _______ and me. Please uproot all the tentacles of bondage, emotional longings and dependencies, and all enslaving thoughts. I bind, renounce, and resist all evil spirits that have reinforced this soul tie or have been transferred to me through this association. Please cleanse my soul and help me to forget all ungodly unions so that I am free to give my soul totally to You, Lord."

Monday, May 10, 2010

God will judge.

A friend of mine is experiencing painful rejection from someone she loved. She is dealing with anger, deception, and the loss of a relationship. The whole situation was unfair and unjust. While her feelings were real, the other person was just playing a game with her. I can relate to what she is experiencing, having been taken advantage of when my heart was vulnerable several times myself. Forgiving folks for hurting us isn't easy. Here are my thoughts about releasing people from offense, from a former post. More to come.....

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

"My health may fail, and my spirit may grow weak,
but God remains the strength of my heart;
He is mine forever. "
Psalm 73:26

Thursday, April 1, 2010